Staying (getting) grounded

20 July 2009 by Elizabeth in Ideas

For what it’s worth, my chakra analysis always says that my root and sacral chakras are always under-active.  (Source, and source for all further notes about chakras, including a diagnostic quiz)

“The Root chakra is about being physically there and feeling at home in situations. If it is open, you feel grounded, stable and secure.”

Home is a difficult concept for me.  Figuring out “home” is one of my goals for the year.  I am definitely a late bloomer in some ways; I might still be years ahead in many areas, but I’m just this year learning to relax.  I got a weekly massage for nearly two months – that was a good start :)   And I took my first “do nothing” vacation ever.  It’s strange, though, because I’m very happy in my life – maybe this one’s just a bit dim.

The sacral chakra is about feeling.  “When it is open, your feelings flow freely, and are expressed without you being over-emotional.”

Huh.   Yep.  I’ve learned to hold back, perhaps too well.  Touchy friends at difficult life crossroads, office politics, family tumult…they’ll teach you to keep quiet. :)

Whether or not these issues stem from energy centers in the body, they are definitely truths about my situation.  I have always envied friends who go home to their families to reconnect with something – that’s not yet my situation, maybe not ever. I used to spend time outside to “find myself again”, but the city I live in now is a bit short on nature.

Running and yoga are both supposed to help, as both force you to be aware of your body.  The site I referenced above also recommends a grounding exercise.  (Every time I think of being “grounded” I remember reading some silly (and likely fake) story about how Drew Barrymore puts dirt in her shoes to help her “stay grounded”.)

It’s not dirt, but I find that Zencast (free) helps get my day off to a good start.  It’s not particularly religious, and I find that even if you disagree with (or are unfamiliar with) the Buddhist aspects of the discussions, the ideas are still useful in plain old daily life.  I think this one about happiness is a good place to start, if you’re interested.

Enough thinking for one morning, on to lunch and perhaps some yoga…or “grounding”, if you will.

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